I believe that parents pay for their children with good intentions. It's really not easy to take care of their children when they grow up, especially in single parent families. Recently, an Indian single mother was exposed for 30 years to "dress up as a man" to raise her child, raising her daughter on her own.
According to foreign media reports, a 57 year old Indian woman, spotchiammal, is a single mother. She married at the age of 20. Unexpectedly, her husband died just 15 days after marriage. Soon after she gave birth to a daughter, she decided to shoulder the burden of the family economy in order to make a living and take care of her children.
However, in the workplace in India, s petchiammal is often treated unfairly at work, and even ridiculed and harassed. His work changes one after another, and his life is very difficult. Seeing that this was not the way to go on, she decided to change her identity, cut off her long hair, put on her shirt and robe, dress up as a man, alias muthu, and move to another small village to live again.
S petchiammal disguised as a man for more than 30 years. In order not to let people see the flaw, she even changed her ID card and bank information. "I have lived as a wooden capital for 30 years. Only my relatives and my daughter in my hometown know that I am a woman". In the past 30 years, she has done all kinds of work and spent every penny saved on raising her daughter. She endured living in the crowd of men for her daughter and even had to go to the men's toilet.
S petchiammal said, "my false identity has guaranteed my daughter's life and safety". Now her daughter has grown up and married, but she still doesn't intend to restore her daughter. She wants to live as a "wooden capital" until she dies.